Jesus’ 10 New Testament Principles for Parenting: Principle No. 7 – Share The Power Through Choices (Part 4)

Here are 4 important things to remember as parents as we model providing choices in our homes like Jesus did with His children.

1.  If you provide choices, make sure that you can live with the choice that your child makes.  For example, if we give our high school children control over how they do in school, we must be prepared to let them fail.  If we take away their control as soon as we begin to see unwise choices, then they will cease to believe that we really gave them a choice at all and they will miss out on the natural consequences.

2.  One failed attempt at providing choices will not make or break your child.  Thankfully, God has made our children resilient and He will give us another chance to practice giving choices in the very near future.

3.  We are not alone in this.  Other parents are going through the same things.  Commiserate with other parents and bounce your ideas off of them.

4.  Have fun!!!  It is easy to get the wrong idea about Jesus’ relationship with His disciples.  I don’t think He was some worry wort parent who could never really enjoy the process of seeing His children struggle and grow.  He had fun giving them choices and seeing the slow transformation take place.

If you like what you read, check out our children’s book, Hooked on the Book, on this website.  It is great for parents because it provides the Big Story of God’s wonderful plan for His children in all 66 books in the Bible including colorful illustrations, rhymes and a surprise on every page.  


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About Liz Hagler

Liz Hagler is the illustrator and co-author of Hooked On The Book. Liz loves to draw silly drawings, write crazy poems, walk her dog down the block, talk to her kids on Skype, and eat taco salad.
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